Prayer & Giving
Is there a direct connection between our prayers being answered and how much money we give to the Church? It seems like a silly question on the surface, but Metropolitan Isaiah raises an interesting point in his letter, when he talks about the habits of Orthodox Christians while entering the Narthex for Worship. He says, “for the past forty years, they have rarely given more than a one-dollar bill when they light a candle in their Churches, as if what they are praying for is not that important.” His Eminence clearly makes a connection here between giving and prayer. The question is, what is the nature of that connection, and how can we as Orthodox Christians avail ourselves of the opportunity to grow from it spiritually? The first thing we have to understand is exactly what happens when we enter the Church to begin our Worship experience. The Orthodox custom is to take a candle, make a donation, light the candle, place it in the sand, offer a prayer, and proceed to venerate the Holy Icons. Most Orthodox Christians approach this practice with the appropriate seriousness and reverence, even though some choose to hang out in the Narthex and gossip, instead of entering the Nave as they should. The real problem is that many Orthodox see at least the donation part of this ritual from purely a consumeristic point of view. In other words, they try to determine what the “fair market value” is for a candle. They know roughly what the cost is to the Church, but they don’t want to seem cheap in front of their fellow Christians, so they settle on the lowest denomination of paper currency, the one-dollar bill. As the Metropolitan often says, “George Washington lives in the Narthex!” Some Orthodox apparently are totally unabashed when it comes to cost analysis precision. It’s not uncommon to see quarters (among other coins) in the candle basket as well. I guess we do have a fascination with our first President! And don’t let the larger bills fool you. They are usually from people who want “change” from the Parish Council members on duty. From a truly Orthodox perspective however, the candle’s “worth” cannot simply be based on the economic forces of supply and demand. The candle’s “worth” is tied up in our offering, not just of money, but of prayer, and ultimately Faith. Giving, whether it be for the Stewardship Program, the Capital Campaign, or a candle in the Narthex, is a response to our Faith in Jesus Christ, and what He truly means in our lives. Prayer, is an exercise of Faith. It is how we communicate with God, verbally. Our giving is another means of communication with God, non-verbal communication. We give in response to all that God has done, continues to do, and even what we hope that He will do in the future. Once we begin to see giving as an act of physical prayer, our attitude toward how and how much we give will also begin to change. Soon, we may even come to realize that giving to our Church is not about a fair exchange of value for services rendered, but a real response to God working in us and through us. Some how, George Washington doesn’t seem as appealing. I think it’s time we welcomed some new Presidents into the Orthodox Church! Next time we look at proportional giving, but for now, that’s My Two Cents!
